3 Better Ways to Distract Yourself When You're Waiting to Hear About a Job

Not too long ago, I interviewed at a company that I was really excited about working at—because at the time, I was noticing signs around my current office that I might be unemployed very soon. And as a result, I wanted to hear the words “you’re hired” so badly that I ended up pestering the hiring manager about next steps for the better part of a week. Several “just following up” emails later, I didn’t get it—and I can’t help but think that my persistence ended up hurting me.

But I know how hard it is to simply sit around and wait for a job offer. The good news is that you’re not just resigned to sitting around on your couch for that message to pop into your inbox.

In fact, I have a few better ways to spend your time when you feel the urge to “follow up” one more time.

1. Email Someone Else

When you’re all geared up to write to the hiring manager, it’s really tough to think about doing anything but writing that email. While you shouldn’t give into the urge (because trust me, another message won’t help your cause), you can get a similar amount of satisfaction in reaching to someone in your network you’ve been meaning to catch up with.

Sure, doing this won’t speed up the interview process, but regardless of whether or not you land this job, it never hurts to strengthen your network. And while you might be nervous about reaching out to someone who hasn’t heard from you in a while, don’t worry—we’ve got tips just for that.

2. Keep Searching for Other Jobs

The reality of your situation is simple: You haven’t been offered the position yet. And I know, in many case, you’ve been led to believe that the hiring manager just has to iron out a few details. But even if that is the case, sending a note checking in on your status won’t help you along in the process.

And from my experience as both a candidate and a recruiter, I’ve seen “inevitable” job offers fall through at the very last minute for reasons that no follow-up email would’ve changed.

So until the hiring manager sends you an offer letter, don’t pause your search. I’m not suggesting that it’s time to start assuming the worst, but it’s also important to keep your eye on your ultimate goal: landing a job you love.

In the event that this opportunity falls through, still being in the job hunt process makes diving back in full-force far easier.